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Friday, March 12, 2010

Tell me what to do, to take away the you.

Forgive me for leaving the detail from this post.  I feel like things are going to calm down since I've taken an important step in eliminating the source of the emotional chaos that has overwhelmed my life for the last few weeks.  But for now, my heart hurts.  I'm surprised at how emotionally invested I became in this person in such a short time and by how hurt I am that he can't reciprocate.  We made big plans too early and the fall from such high hopes is a painful one.

For now, I plan to keep myself as busy as possible to get my mind off of him and the situation in general, as it's actually pretty effective.  Running has also been a friend to me, but I can only run so far.  What worked for me in my 20's to numb the pain doesn't suit my tastes or lifestyle any longer.  The quickest way for me to get over someone was always to meet someone new.  That's not so easy anymore, and I could use some advice.  What do you do to mend a broken heart?





5 comments:

anthony said...

check this out.
http://decaturcd.blogspot.com/

kat said...

hmmm...

Is this just shameless promotion of decatur cd (which I love, incidentally) or do you somehow know that I know the peeps from Roman Candle and happen to thoroughly enjoy their music?

I suppose it doesn't matter since I'm booked solid Saturday or I would go and see them and quit wallowing for an hour or so.

Thanks anyway, stranger.

Kim said...

Play "I'm Free" by the Soup Dragons as loud as possible. The line "don't be afraid of your freedom!" works like a charm.

anthony said...

nah, no, yes, and your welcome. ride your bike to cure what ails you.

anthony said...

check this out part deux. like DCD, i like to support cool local businesses and people i know. anthony

http://themarlayhouse.com/events/